Dear Miss Undecided,
Let me start by saying that that is a very good question. It’s that point in your life when you don’t know which one you feel more — love or hatred. And other people might say ‘you can feel both for the same person’, but yet others say that that is simply impossible. This phrase comes to mind: the more you hate, the more you love. If there’s one thing I have learned in this lifetime, it’s that you could only hate someone so much if once upon a time you have loved him more than you thought you can. Hatred is not the opposite of love. Indifference is the opposite of love.
One thing’s for sure, you do not have indifference for that person. So I think the only way out is to ask yourself: which one weighs more? LOVE or HATRED? Have you hated him enough to forget love? Or do you love him enough to forget hatred?
Do you still have the strength to do either one of these?
Love,
PLM <3